I did a thing this week. I made a vision board to show what it is I wanted my life to look like. I actually used a notebook that I always have with me so I could keep looking at it as often as I wanted.
I had heard of people making these before. Targets and motivations to strive for and that emphasize the power of the mind. The photo above was one of the photos I chose. I won’t share the rest here…yet. Maybe never. I am not sure.
What I do know is how happy I am to have used this photo and then realized that I am living this part of my vision board out loud; in present time. So many times I hear people tell me they wish they wrote, or they want to write, or they do write but they won’t put it out anywhere in the world. I am proud that I do. I am proud that in this vision, my writing is not just a vision. Its not just a wish. Its not a someday if I weren’t so busy. I am a mother of 4 (3 of whom are completely dependent), I work part time at my children’s school, I work at my husband’s business, I have 2 children in travel sports that we have 5 days a week and 2 times each day of the weekend. Our little Spicy is a swimmer so that is sucking up time. I also run a part time online business plus I run a household….Can I get an Amen to that? Bills, laundry, dinners, all lunches packed, groceries, cleaning, etc. I get busy. Believe me! Yet, I still find time to be what I believe God calls me to be. A writer. Who actually writes.
I encourage all of you to create your own vision board. A tangible one is best. One you can craft and hold and see each day. BUT, if you are even too busy for that, make one on Pinterest. Start making a plan today for what you say you want. Have your vision become reality. It is empowering. And don’t we all just want to feel a little stronger in our own skin?
This blog is nearing its birthday. 3 years. It seems like its always been here. Of course, writing has been at the core for me always. I wrote for every occasion and event. I was never happy or fulfilled unless I was lost in an imaginary world I was creating. Whole worlds created with just 26 letters. Amazing, isn’t it? 26 letters alone and I get to jumble them around over and over for pure delight.
There is something about this little space here of mine. This little corner of the internet that changed something for me. Perhaps inside me. It created a sense of belonging. While I always wrote and it most certainly defined me, it was not a public thing. Now it very much is. I identify as a writer and whats really a blessing is that others do now as well. I am no longer the person who says they like to write, I am the writer.
I always have been but its more now. I now have a book that has been published and that is out in the world. I have another following and yet another being written still. I am now friends with illustrators, agents and other authors. I am invited to the table for discussions that perhaps I would not have been before.
I think this little section of the ether plays a role in this. Whether it be by allowing me to stand up, declare and PROVE that I am who I claimed to be or just by giving me the dedicated place where I could do what I loved, I am not sure. But I am loving my place at the table and thank you all for your role in helping me along the way.
We always hear, “Write what you know.” Perhaps that is why I was so quiet for so long. I wasn’t sure I knew much at all. I was never focused on one thing long enough to speak, er, write about it with any sort of intelligence or wisdom. I go from the time I wake until the time I collapse. Swimming, hockey, ballet, scouting, play dates, church, school trips, school volunteering, all household task, etc. etc. etc…..
Here it is. I am a wife. I am a mom. And these people I made are getting older. They are getting busier. The more involved they become in their lives, the less in touch I become with my own. I’m aware this is not a huge revelation and I know from speaking to my sister, its normal. But why? Why does it have to be? Why does helping them find their way mean I must lose mine?
It doesn’t. IT DOESN’T!
And they aren’t asking that of me. My husband isn’t asking that of me. I am doing it to myself. How many stay at home parents do that to themselves? It doesn’t make me a hero. It doesn’t make me a martyr. It makes me less than what I am called to be and that serves no one. Not my husband, my community, my children, my God nor myself.
I am getting back to the core of myself. I am vowing to myself and this little piece of space I have in the great ether that I am going to carve out time- for me. I am going to take care of me. I will practice my craft and make time to do what I love. I used to see that as selfish. I don’t anymore. I need to take care of my WHOLE self so I can wholeheartedly be an asset to my family and their lives. So I can be me.
So I am going to write. Create. Get back to my core.
Are you? Are you doing what you are called to do? If not, please do. The world will be a brighter place when we are ALL our Authentic selves.
Hey there! Lots of exciting things are happening as we get ready for SUMMER! My blog is going to get some much needed attention and posts so I hope you are ready! Many fun activities for the kiddos that I will be sharing, some updates on me and my weight loss/gain journey, some information on the planner I have been using and how it is helping me organize our family of 6 and of course, updates on the book and its tour and special launches! I am also looking to have some guest bloggers/writers on here for you guys so if you have a great story to tell or a message you want to get out, send me a comment and we will try to work something out!
Today I wanted to just check in real fast to share some exciting news! No Cheese Please is on SALE from today until June 30th!!! This is super exciting and is happening to make room for… wait for it… the launch of No Cheese Please in PAPERBACK being released in July!!! I cannot begin to tell you how thrilled I am to be sharing this news today!
Hopefully you will all act fast to get your hardback copy while it is being offered at this special rate. Please note there is some issue with Amazon shipping and it the combining of shipping is not working. If you want more than one copy (and I hope you will), feel free to go ahead and purchase on Amazon and I will refund you the shipping. 🙂 Or of course, you can always email your questions and orders direct to DarnWritePublications@gmail.com.
The sale price for the hard back is $17.00 and will be good for June only. Then it will return to its original cost.
How did you know this week was not one for crazy hoopla and shenanigans? It was almost as if you were well aware that we are planning for a huge Christmas Party this weekend and you didn’t want to overwhelm me. THANK YOU! Thank you for being the strong, silent type elf this week. I am POSITIVE that once Saturday night passes, you will be back to your wild and carefree ways.
And I, for one, am super excited about it!
Throwback to 2012: When you Toilet-Papered the boy’s room in our old house! Good times!