I know the upcoming book is the latest buzz here and BELIEVE ME, I am so unimaginably excited for that but I wanted to take a break from that briefly to tell you all something else big I have been pondering.
About a year ago, I heard of someone online who created a “capsule wardrobe” with 37 pieces of clothing for each season. I distinctly remember thinking, “That is a great idea! Take a minimalist approach and make getting dressed each day easy-peasy.”.
For any of you who are not aware of what a capsule wardrobe is, let me enlighten you. A capsule wardrobe is when one has limited number of ‘classic’ essentials that all tie together to create nearly endless outfit combinations. As I mentioned above, the particular organizer I came across had the magic number of 37 (including coats, purses and shoes) articles of clothing. Undergarments and work out clothes don’t count. You have a capsule wardrobe for each season which would leave someone with a max of 148 articles of clothing for the whole year. Not a lot. Believe me.
I have had about 12 months since I came upon that little gold nugget on the world wide web. Where am I now all that time later? Inundated with clothes that are too big, clothes that are too small and clothes that I haven’t worn since Bush was president! While not the first Bush it is still a long freaking time ago! I have been hoarding these clothes and I have also been adding to the pile. As a matter of fact, I seemed to do a complete 180 from what it was I was so intrigued by last year. I went the complete opposite of minimalist and now have a walk-in and 2 full dressers filled. And I mean FILLED with clothes. People, I have 39 cardigans. I went through a brief (but huge) LuLaRoe legging surge – I shudder to even tell you the number. But since we are all friends here, I can tell you- 28 pair of LulaRoe leggings. If you are familiar with this brand, you will know, they go with NOTHING. They are wild prints in wild colors. Not conducive AT ALL to capsule wardrobing.
So I got to thinking again about capsule wardrobes and came to this realization that I had gone so far in the opposite direction that I had to ask myself why. Really ask myself. The get into your own head and entertain no bullshit kind of self-talk. I think I came up with a few valid answers to this situation.
- Still being unhappy with where my body is physically after all these kids and all this unhealthy eating, shopping is NO FUN. Heck, even getting dressed isn’t fun. As a result, I kind of rush through it and buy, buy, buy without taking the time to buy what will look good.
- This is a big one, I keep telling myself that I don’t want to buy anymore clothes until I am where I want to be weight-wise. That is great in theory but detrimental for me and I will tell you why. Yes, on paper it makes sense not to spend money when you have every intention to lose weight. However, when someone gets dressed each day and truly doesn’t like what they see or how their clothes feel, it kind of keeps them in a dark place. And as a result, they neglect their journey to health and hot mama living.
- The LulaRoe. I think I can describe that pretty simply. One, they are comfortable as ALL GET OUT. Seriously. Totally like butter. Number two, they are so colorful and the prints are so fun. But not 28 pair fun. I think that was almost a way to (subconsciously?) distract people from how I was feeling about my looks? How could I possibly feel bad or sad when my pants were screaming vibrant joy? I think one pair is good for my capsule wardrobe. Check eBay for some hot sales on these leggings worn only once. 🙂
So I have decided that I will be purging the bulk of my wardrobe and will be creating this capsule wardrobe for myself. Today. The body I have today. I will focus on building a beautiful and complimentary wardrobe. I believe completely that by beginning my capsule wardrobe today, it will help me get to the body I want tomorrow. I need to feel good about the body I have right now. I mean, people still see me, right? Shouldn’t they see the best version of myself I can put together? More importantly, shouldn’t my husband and children? I want them to be proud of me. Proud to call me theirs.
I am doing this and I am going to be documenting this and I hope you all will find it fun and perhaps even inspiring. I want to go to my closet and be confident that whatever I choose; goes together, looks great on me and makes my family nod and say, “That’s right, she’s with us!”
First round of business- a serious purge deadline. And I have done it. I have requested that Purple Heart make a Pickup on 02/11. I am going to be donating clothes, shoes, bags, etc. This is gonna be so nuts but so exhilarating as well! Hope you follow on the journey!